I hate how Xander was ok with Buffy killing Angel when he turns evil because he was jealous of their relationship, but when Buffy said she has to kill Anya he’s against her doing it & says that this is different.
Reminds me of how some fans shit on Oz for cheating in his wolf form WHERE HE CAN'T REMEMBER SHIT or smth (I'm re-watching the series after a few years so i don't remember half the stuff) but when they see Willow doing the same with Xander AND BEING IN THE MOMENT in season 3 they turn a blind eye to it
That was the first time, he started having sex during the transformation. You don't restart the relationship and when the cheated becomes the cheater it is justified. It just makes you worse. Because it tells you that you was just waiting for an opportunity. Anyways, that isn't the way Oz was. He knew he was in the wrong this time, so he left.
Stop making out Xander was pining for Buffy all through the show. He hated Angel for being a vampire (it might have been jealousy as well at the beginning). Vampires killed his best friend Jessie. "I'm going to take a stand and say they are not good" that is what he said. He was best friends with Riley remember (human). Also, he had an opportunity to take advantage of Buffy when that love spell theatrics happened, he didn't go there. So his dream of being with her buggered off eventually.
